We all know how important it is to balance the online and offline networking and connecting that we do.
Yet we can’t live solely online, or offline, anymore. Each one is mutually interdependent and inter-related. They work so well in tandem.
Both have their importance, purpose and value. We know that being “online” is simply smart and essential because that is where people converge, gather and interact. But, “offline” is where the true personal connections are made, to explore mutuality and develop relationships. If you are not in physical proximity with someone, what are some of the ways and things you can do to accelerate relationship building?
Are you meeting, picking up the phone or Skype-ing regularly when you make new social friends?
Here are 9 tips that will help you develop some warm connections, stand out and be remembered.
1) Lead and Share your passion, authenticity and story. People really connect with your real side and everyone has a story. It’s the new “elevator pitch”.
2) Target Your Audience by knowing about the community where you are meeting. Research and find out about them on websites, blogs and through others that may know about them, or are members of the group.
3) Know the Guest List. When you know some specific people that you want to meet, do your homework and find out about them. Company, awards, community activity, accomplishments. This is great fodder for conversation. How would you feel when someone you didn’t know yet, approaches you and says, “I loved the blog post you wrote on how to be a Mom and grow a business”? It certainly says something to me about them.
4) Work the Room and try to have several warm interactions. Don’t monopolize or be monopolized. Engage and encourage mutual conversation and include others into it.
5) Pair up with a Mentor or someone who knows the crowd and group and rely on them to introduce you around. Coming with someone others know and respect says something about you. “you are judged by the company you keep” is the quote isn’t it?
6) Set Goals for what you want to accomplish and come out of the experience with: 5 warm connections, new friends, someone you can refer business to.
7) Be Inclusive and see how making connections for others make sense both at the event and after. I have been amazed at how encouraging commonality and synergy can work with complimentary businesses.
9) Follow Up promptly and with purpose with those warm connections you made. Lunch, coffee, guest blog, mentor, referral, Skype, phone call, collaboration, link swap are only a few reasons to reach out and continue.
Relationships take time, effort and commitment. Some grow, some go, but you won’t know which until you take the actions.
Networking is a natural extension of all our interactions and communications today. We are pretty much networking all the time now aren’t we?
What are some of the successful ways you have used in your networking?
Create a Brand-Yourself.com Account to Manage Your Online Reputation!
Brand-Yourself.com is an award winning toolset that helps you proactively manage your online reputation and promote yourself across the social web. Create an account today to see how we can help you win new opportunities, jobs and clients online. It’s easy and it’s fun!
Deborah Shane is a Motivator, Educator, Career Catalyst and Empowerment Advocate whose passion is creating and presenting motivational/keynote speaking, engaging seminars and training events, and corporate/personal consulting. She is the founder of Train With Shane, a Women’s Empowerment series, and manages the Deborah Shane Toolbox blog.
